Last week when Sweet Husband was traveling, we were talking on the phone one night and I jokingly said, "If you'd just be a crappy dad when you're here, it'd be a lot easier when you're gone. I'm too used to being part of the tag team. It's hard to do this alone."
In addition to not being crappy, he also manages to make being the dad look pretty darned good. If he had a magic wand for night weaning he might, indeed, be the perfect father.